#9 ladies only - back to basics

today's society changed us ladies - the way we talk, the way we walk, the way we love. i dare to say that we might have lost our ladylike side.

in my opinion every woman should behave proportional to her value - her self esteem- and that should be sky high! i know we've all been there, falling for someone who we thought he was the one - but it failed. what does that tell you? no, don't come up with i'm not attractive/sexy enough - probably he wasn't ready.

a lady's value is expressed by the way she walks, talks and loves - walk like a goddess, talk like a queen and love like venus.

be able to fulfill a man's mental needs, be a woman who knows what's around her, knows where her money comes from, knows how to earn it with her intelligence, give him something to think about - twirl with your mental eyelashes, be mind blowing with your mental wittiness and strength - talk with sweet diplomacy, keep your head were it belongs, up high with grace, let him want to show you his mental value - fascinate him with your beautiful smile that reaches your eyes. keep your humor, talk straight but with discretion, keep your soft look - a look that tries to read his heart and mind, understand him but never lose your ground - stand it - and be kind with your words.

smoking and drinking is nothing "unladylike" if you do it with elegance mixed with a little spice in your eyes, it is absolutely lady like. keep your table manners and hold up your posture, when your feet hit the ground, it demonstrates your grace and value, when you smile it demonstrates your heart's treasure, when you kiss it demonstrates your passion in purity.

if you talk to me, impress my mind with your chivalry, take me on a mental trip with your deep and rich personality, keep me with your daring and brave heart. teach me something, show me the other point of view. make me admire you - before i adore you. undress me with the mental affection i have for you, tease me with your masculine traits, make me vulnerable with your heart's language. be dominant and self assured when you bed talk with me, teach me new passion, show me passion and i'll teach you a new language full of love, desire and happiness. know him better than he knows himself, know his darkest facets and turn them into his brightest.

a man who impresses me first via my mind, conquers me first via my mind and keeps me like a proud king - he shall have it all, if he earns it step by step.

keep up with my passion, show me each time that there aren't any limits, no routine, love me each day like it was the first and last - make me lose my mind, pulling the sheets and scream out my desire for you. hold me like it's the first and last time, make my mind never run out of thirst.

but before we should even think about it - be a lady, be proud, smart, loving, forgiving and brave - mr charming and mr prince will step aside as mr king walks along our way.

#5 inspired post

when i first met mr. big i never had a clue what was about to come in my life - the past months were anything but normal, i guess it's something totally irrational what made me do all of those things. i experience so many different things, a lot i experienced for the first time. but it's not all about experiencing things for the first time, it's about how he makes me see them from a different point of view - like there isn't any better way for it, like this is just how it should be. and that feeling is beautiful. this is def not where i planned to go in first place, but it reveals to be just the perfect, right place where i belong to be in the end.

cloud 9, cloud 7, pinky love glasses, falling in love, loves stoned - however one might call it, i don't care. fact is mr. big knocked me off my mental feet, like there is a switch for inspiration and imagination that went from "off" to "ON & hyper hyper on". my mind was never dull though, but it felt like slowly drying out from thirst - thirsty for huge mental stimulation. guess i couldn't define it myself back then, but something was missing in my life. he inspired me in a different way, enabled me to write again - not just about how awesomely handsome he is etc nah, much more!! almost every text is inspired by him and that makes me happy. that makes my mind feel alive and limitless - i feel a huge need to write my thoughts down and if i can't then that upsets me, more and more each day. so as he gives me inspiration, he gives me peace of mind and happiness at the same time.

i believe that one can find inspiration in many things, but if you can find inspiration which is given from the heart of someone so special - well that amazes me.

thank you

#1 inspired post

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▪ ladies, if you got a man's attention and turned it into respect, appreciation & a true friendship because of your ability to actually speak out with your heart & intellect - be confident about it cuz' he won't let you down for any cheap "sale" sign that passes his way and might turn his head for a second. He appreciates the mental connection between both of you & the way you captured his mind and true respect more than a quick distraction that comes a long. "Sale" advertisments come and go on a daily basis - but at the end of the day they turned his head for a second - you turned AND captured his head, mind, respect & happiness for a life time. Think about it ▪

- Sarah Jessica

edit:  a deep mental connection can give peace of mind because it results out of the ability to understand and accept eachother - nothing to be taken for granted. a quick chase might satisfy him for a while, but true mental depth and delightment overweight any thrill in the end. ease a man's mind beyond superficiality and show him how meaningless time can get when he's around you - he will never want to miss that again cause that's luxury- forgotten how to live by that by many but craved by almost everyone. Give it to him and you will get much more in return - either a lifetime friendship or a lifetime love. I tend to go for the second because finding someone like that is rare and chances that you fall in love with eachothers mindsets are big, seriously... you shouldn't let go of something like that, especially when that person can give you something like you never had before.