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Donnerstag, 3. Oktober 2013
#15 ladies only - they don't fear commitment
many of us tend to say "he got some serious commitment issues" but the truth is way easier to understand and accept.
every man has criterias, different ones, subconscious and conscious ones, superficial and true ones. yeh one might say they only choose with their dick but they don't. thats also why sex on the first date isn't 100% a game over for a relationship - it can even boost you on your way to his heart. remember you'll have a longer time buying that new car when you didn't test drive it - right? - imagine you two have a bombe chemistry you havin a good time, laugh, talk, eat something etc and then it happens - one of the biggest taboos in our female head - sex on the first date - after that it all depends on how you act.
ok you climaxed, he blew your mind and you really think you start to like him more than you should - stop there - go your own way, don't cling to him, don't ask for his number, don't give it that day. get up, get dressed, spend a few more hours with him and take the chance to get to know him better. i bet he'll be confused by the way you act, not so clingy and crazy like those other chicks. leave before he asks you to leave - i know you want to spend time with this sexy mofu but hold on girl - don't add him on fb for the next days. now you give him time to evaluate the situation, I'm not a fan of holding back under the sheets, so fuck him like a pornstar baby, enjoy it, let down and give him that test drive.
be yourself but keep your inner emotional whore in check for now, you like him - fine - you like him a lot - fine - but don't let him know at first. that doesn't mean release your inner bitch - hell no - just be sweet, a little quiet don't tell him your whole life story within 3h - if he wants to find out more then it's up to him. however, give him your number in the next days, txt him your number via fb or whatever. but don't initiate meeting him again, that's his part - that way you make sure his interest is still there and strong enough for him to initiate. be yourself on the next dates - enjoy the time you spend and stop overthinking, act like he's just a good friend. you show him how independent you are, that just because he fucked you up to cloud 7 doesn't mean you are after him.
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