#12 ladies only - fuck this housewifey shit, right?

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ok we all dream about prince charming who will conquer us, wine nd dine the shit out of us and hopefully proposes to us one day including moving into the perfect house with white fences, a dog nd kids - right? more or less, but all women - no matter how stupid, hoelike or smart nd ladylike - we all want to land that big catch one day, a guy who will sweep us off our feet, who we proudly talk about to our bff's nd families - who makes us happy, looks good, has a good job and of course who'd never cheat on us. and to all those "tough - i don't need a man i'm happy all by myself" girls - nobody wants to die desperate nd lonely huh, so don't pretend you'll be happy for the rest of your life alone just because you're too wack to get a good man. if you lose in game then be mature enough to admit that you ain't wowing anyone nd that u need some change girl!

ehm ok - what's today's date? - august 29, 2013

riiiiiiight, let me put on my super sexy fake smile!! cooking, cleaning, laundry and being caring are lame attributes on your "lady's list" - the only list you follow is the ladies list at the club on weekends - wow - you must be wowing a lot of good men huh. oh nd don't forget your fake housewifey pics on instagram - yeehhh u got it girl - ordered chinese nd claim u cooked it lol

by now when you are in your mid twenties you should make some space for good wifey features nd cross out "fucking as many hot dudes as i can without getting herpes" & "fuck this and that i party like there's no tomorrow - yolo biiiiitch" - ok before i get hunted down as soon as i walk out on the street, if you manage to be a good housewife and still find time for your friends nd go out etc thats totally fine, so don't panic ladies - but seriously there is a big conflict going on in our heads. i don't care who you want to blame, society, mtv, teen mom season 1 & 2 or your loose vagayjaaaay - on one hand you want mr perfect and of course he won't be a broke ass but on the other hand you don't see yourself as mrs housewifey. why the fuck should you, right? we live in 2013 not 1950! oh girl.... your mind is fucked as hell.

ok let's rethink this mess and walk in the shoes of our chosen mr perfect:

"for her i'd be as good as i can, make her happy, give her my love & time, kick my own ass so i'll get a well paid job so we can start building our life, family costs a lot of money u know, i want to support my future to be wife nd our kids - ain't no way i'll be broke then. she's worth it, she could be the one. "

those girls be like "oh my gaawwd he's perfect - but naaahhh no way i'll be cooking everyday - who does that?! if he's hungry he can cook for himself, naahh what about pizza, pasta nd burger bae? oh wait i can cook, what about bolognese or throwing meat in the pan? yeh i can do that. no way i put effort into learning how to cook if i can get those oven-ready meals. uuugh cleaning nd laundry also? what the fuck? I ain't got time to clean the house - why should i do it? he can do it, just because i'm a woman doesn't mean i'll play housewifey - uuuhh but baby, don't forget about our plans for a new car"

mr perfect "why should i work my ass off in order to support her nd build our future if she doesn't invest herself in the same way as i do?! where's the point in making her my wife if she doesn't behave like one? u can put in your dick in any girl who walks around, but none of them will be my wife later - ain't no man got time for a half ass lazy chick"

what i try to point out is that today's women (mostly) in my generation got all overwhelmed by the thought of being bad, tough girls who run the show at work nd at local clubs. none of them would title themselves proudly as a housewifey - take a look at your own mother. my mum is a super housewife, she can cook all kinds of delicious stuff, she does laundry for 4 people, cleans our house nd we have 7 floors huh! + she takes care of the kids emotionally nd still finds time to cuddle up with my dad on the couch. THAT'S what i look up to, i want to become a great wife and mother one day - she showed me how, she shows us kids everyday.

u know, behind every strong man stands a strong woman - how do you define strong? 

a strong man is a good hearted man, with respect, dignity, ambition to stand with both feet on the ground financially, a man with goals and plans how to realize them - at the same time a man whose touch is tender, who listens and supports you emotionally.

a strong woman is an understanding woman, with grace and believes. she's witty and stimulates you mentaliy, she can work as much as you do - she keeps herself busy and will be someone you can rely on when u lose your ground under your feet. at the same time she manages the housekeeping nd runs her own show - as a great partner, great wife or/and great mother.

fact is, us women we give birth not men - so yes, it's not just our natural instinct to take care of the kids it's also our responsability to take care of our kids environment = home. get it? fathers also take care of the kids emotionally but also financially!

how are you ever supposed to be a great mother / great wife when you can't even manage your household without kids? which man wants to wife a girl who can't cook healthy with variety and who can't keep her shit clean nd neat? no man with any common sense. improve your cooking girl, learn how to cook healthy, learn how to cook more than 5 dishes - learn how to keep your household on track.

want to be treated as wifematerial - act like you are all that and nothing less.