#12 inspired post

we pride ourselves with our looks, our accessories and feed our ego with men's superficial compliments how they see us as lusty pieces of meat. we take their superficial views as ego boost and lie to ourselves day by day that they admire us and are our prince charming who is probably stuck in a tree cuz he won't make things serious. so we push and beg, for love as we think, but infact we beg for further approval for our weak confidence. let's shake that illusion off and put that fake ego pride aside - think about this - would it make you happy, like truly happy, if he would admire your body, heels and dolled up face but wouldn't see anything of your beautiful personality? ask your "prince charming" to tell you what makes you beautiful - he won't say much than superficial fucked up shit. we compensate weak confidence with boosted egos, pull up fake walls around our heart and think our inner self could never reach his heart. sure, a lot of men walk through life with their hearts blindfolded - don't waste your time and love on them. let your looks be your accessories, turn your personality into the main attraction - blow his mind and feelings before anything else to blow. if you can't "wow" him then he is either ignorant or not your cup of peppermint tea. if a man falls for your heart and how you touched his, then looks are just an extra to him. men know within shortest time if you "wow"ed him or not - so hold back your looks and shine brightly with your caring, interesting and touching personality - even if it confuses him a bit, he doesn't get hit by a fairy everyday, so give him time to realize what a true catch you are. every woman can "shine" with her makeup, fake eyelashes and tight jeans - step up and show them the true value of a lady's heart. isn't someone who can inspire, stimulate you and give you a feeling of security better than someone who's mind is dried out as the desert and who's only priority is their ego? 

understanding and appreciation lead to honoring you, honoring you leads to loving you and loving is equal to respecting and trusting you. time will tell

#11 inspired post

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true as my heart, packed with a lot, sparing it out on the floor - vulnerability became rare, disrespected and used. oneway ticket to a woman's precious garden, or even a roundway ticket? where do us women want to stand in life? right, on our own heels with a pretty smile inspired by our life, falls, wins, family, friends and loved ones - also by people who crushed our heart into million pieces, why? because they showed us where we never ever want to stand again, down under with our feet in the mud of sticky never ending back and forth issues. no, we standup proudly, knowing that we'll never settle for less than we are truly worth of. we won't bend nor knee, we walk along our life's path happily and if one man out of douzen steps out of his comfort zone and wants us to be his queen, then he'll walk with us instead of leading us onto his comfort path.

we own this, we inspired men to get back to their instincts of going after what they want and get it with the right effort. there isn't a king and his lady, there will be a king and queen - partners not worshippers. a weak mind will dimm the light of your heart, know your worth and the directions you are going after and let that outshine all the other temptations men are after. because at the end of the day you are a queen with flaws and sparkling facets who will never feel and especially act like a side chick, doormat or bottom chick - be yourself and let that be amazing enough for him to do his male job, proudly courting his queen. there might be many courtjesters dancing around you, be patient, do your business and look at him as he courts you, you'll notice him in an instant - because a king will win with actions not words.

- sarah jessica