we pride ourselves with our looks, our accessories and feed our ego with men's superficial compliments how they see us as lusty pieces of meat. we take their superficial views as ego boost and lie to ourselves day by day that they admire us and are our prince charming who is probably stuck in a tree cuz he won't make things serious. so we push and beg, for love as we think, but infact we beg for further approval for our weak confidence. let's shake that illusion off and put that fake ego pride aside - think about this - would it make you happy, like truly happy, if he would admire your body, heels and dolled up face but wouldn't see anything of your beautiful personality? ask your "prince charming" to tell you what makes you beautiful - he won't say much than superficial fucked up shit. we compensate weak confidence with boosted egos, pull up fake walls around our heart and think our inner self could never reach his heart. sure, a lot of men walk through life with their hearts blindfolded - don't waste your time and love on them. let your looks be your accessories, turn your personality into the main attraction - blow his mind and feelings before anything else to blow. if you can't "wow" him then he is either ignorant or not your cup of peppermint tea. if a man falls for your heart and how you touched his, then looks are just an extra to him. men know within shortest time if you "wow"ed him or not - so hold back your looks and shine brightly with your caring, interesting and touching personality - even if it confuses him a bit, he doesn't get hit by a fairy everyday, so give him time to realize what a true catch you are. every woman can "shine" with her makeup, fake eyelashes and tight jeans - step up and show them the true value of a lady's heart. isn't someone who can inspire, stimulate you and give you a feeling of security better than someone who's mind is dried out as the desert and who's only priority is their ego?
understanding and appreciation lead to honoring you, honoring you leads to loving you and loving is equal to respecting and trusting you. time will tell
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