talk to your bff or even your mother - sooner or later all women will come up with the saying "it's not like i have only 2 kids at home, i have 3 kids if you add my husband".
so lovely how all of their smelly socks lay on the floor next to their boxers which failed the basket by 2 cm, used lunchboxes thrown next to the sink - adorable, lets watch how they clean themselves - woooooow dope shit. oh and lets not forget about clean laundry, yes clean, can anyone tell me the sense behind putting them into your closet? rocket sience knowledge needed i guess.
in my opinion this isn't a major issue because i'm not like that at all and living together with me requires a man, not a toddler. so when you have yourself a toddler at home and you keep crying over how immature and nasty he is - take a closer look at yourself first. women nowadays aren't better mostly, if your kitchen looks like shit, your laundry basket looks like shit x3 cuz you rarely do laundry and your stuff that lays on the floor just looks like shit -> you just suck and you look damn stupid when you try to teach your man some manners. the reason why he won't give a fuck about your raging madness and why he won't change.
men don't see the relationship world as "ok you suck, i'll do better now to motivate you to become more of a wifey type of lady" hell no - they'll be like "damn this girl's nasty but who cares? i don't, why should i change?! i'm way too lazy"
every man has a more or less lazy side and every new relationship requires a battle from time to time. battle of persistence - and i'm one hell of a persitent woman - it's ok when from time to time i pick up your socks etc it's ok when i let you sit on your lazy sexy ass from time to time. but in general the rules are clear, meaning if i do the main work in the household - what i appreciate as housewife - if i ask you kindly to do something then i expect you to do so. you'll get the more unpleasent work as bringing out the trash, bringing the empty cans and glasses or cleaning the bathroom. i'm good enough to keep everything in check on my own but when i ask for assistance then a "no" is a nono!
we shouldn't try to make housewifes out of men but it's enough when you make a man out of a toddler.
